All About Me and My Family
Primary 3 · English
All About Me and My Family
Lesson 2 of 3
13 min
Uwase brings a photograph to school. At break time everyone crowds around her desk.
"Who is that?" asks Gatete, pointing at a tall man. Uwase opens her mouth - and stops. Is it his father or her father? Which little word does she need?
Today you learn the family words, and the four small words that tell everyone who belongs to whom.
Read each word slowly. As you read it, think of the real person in your own family.
Two words can join to make a bigger word: grand + mother = grandmother. Here grand means one step further back - the mother of your own mother.
Keza is talking to her friend Mutesi. Keza points at a woman and says:
This is my mother.
The mother belongs to Keza, and Keza is the one speaking. So she uses my.
Then Keza points at Mutesi's family and asks:
Is that your mother?
Now the mother belongs to Mutesi - the person Keza is talking to. So she uses your.
So: my means it belongs to me. your means it belongs to you, the one I am speaking to.
Now Keza stops talking to people and starts talking about them. Watch very carefully here.
Mugisha is a boy. Mugisha has a sister, and her name is Uwase. Keza wants to point at Uwase and say who she is. Let us work it out.
Wait - Uwase is a girl, and we still said his? Yes! This surprises nearly everyone the first time. The word his is not talking about Uwase at all. It is talking about Mugisha, the person she belongs to.
Now turn the picture around. Uwase has a brother, and he is Mugisha. Whose brother is he? He is Uwase's brother. Uwase is a girl, so we take her:
This is her brother.
The same two people. A different owner. A different little word. That is the whole secret.
Tip
The owner rule: look at the owner, not at the thing owned
Boy owner takes his. Girl owner takes her.
Gatete and his baby sister. Mutesi and her big brother.
Before you choose the word, point your finger at the owner. Your finger will never lie to you.
Try each one first, then tap Show answer to check.
Your father's brother is your ___ .
Answer: uncle. (Your father's sister would be your aunt.)
Habimana is a boy. Finish it: "Habimana is playing with ___ cousin."
Answer: his. Point at the owner: Habimana. He is a boy, so his.
Keza is a girl. Finish it: "Keza is helping ___ grandmother carry water."
Answer: her. The owner is Keza, and she is a girl. Careful - the grandmother is a woman too, but that is not the reason. We only look at Keza.
You are pointing at your own brother. What do you say?
Answer: "This is my brother." The owner is me, so the word is my.
A harder one. Fix this sentence: "Mugisha and her father went to the market."
Answer: "Mugisha and his father went to the market." The father belongs to Mugisha, and Mugisha is a boy - so his, not her.
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